These
entries were added from bottom to top. Our
Facebook family group is taking over some of the
function of this digital diary, because photos and
news items are being shared there with great
immediacy rather than finding their way to this
page.
Dec 1st, 2011. We
had a busy month of November which included visits by
Mom and Heather, and Peter. We visited Brian in
Barrie, and Rob in Prince Edward County again.
We enjoyed our jazz choir, where I surprised myself by
opening up my vocal chords to belt out some tenor
solos. I played my last tennis games with the
final cold-weather hold-outs. The garden is
cultivated, turned over laboriously by hand and shovel
for the winter, ready for the frost to help open the
soil. Lara came to stay with us as she
transitions to becoming a Torontonian. Spanish
classes continued and I had a lot of fun sharpening my
skills with verbs, and learning to sing a few Spanish
songs. I played my guitar for the very first
time in public, as we played and sang Las Mañanitas to
our classmates, and the following week I played piano
accompaniment to Quiéreme Mucho.
Nov 6th. Haul-out
was a busy weekend at the end of October lifting all
the sailboats onto their winter cradles, and preparing
our own boat for winter storage. My niece Lara
has moved into our guest room, and she will live here
while Deb and I go west and south. This week Mom
and Heather will fly here to meet Rob. Mom will
be seeing her first born son for the first time in
sixty years. My brother Peter will visit two
weeks later. Apart from that, we're just
singing, I'm doing more genealogy work, and we're
organizing the yard and house for our winter absence,
doing little repairs and packing things away.
Oct 24th. It's
been a two busy weeks of getting to know Rob, Cynthia
and Elisabeth, much of it online. The family has
engaged in a whirlwind of postings of photos and
banter to a "secret group" on Facebook. Too much
to read, at times. We spent the weekend of
October 14 to 16 in Prince Edward County with Rob and
Cynthia, and Elisabeth came here for an evening to
meet Deb and me, Lara and Andrea, who was also seeing
our home and neighbourhood for the first time.
We have yet to meet Jennifer, but have seen a video of
her 140 kilometre walk to Toronto in support of
medical cannabis.
In other news, the kittens went back, but
not before the mommy cat gave Deborah a fierce bite on
her wrist which had to be treated with
antibiotics. We've dropped the mast on Awelyn,
erected the cradle, tarped Tiger Moth, and steadily
worked at fall projects in the garden. When I'm
finished, I will have moved a very large raspberry
patch and a number of other bushes and plants in order
to create a bigger and better space for our staple
"crops" next
summer:
tomatoes,
beans,
squash, swiss chard, garlic and the usual herbs.
And strawberries, of course.
Oct 11th. My summer is
officially over. We sailed on Sunday, and it
was, fellow sailors claimed, the most perfect sailing
day all season. Yesterday there wasn't enough wind,
and today it was cool and foggy on the lake, so we
decided to spend the day dropping the mast. We worked
at that all afternoon to the sound of machine gun fire
a couple of hundred yards away where a film crew was
shooting an episode of Nikita. Our stretch of
waterfront is in constant use by film crews.
It will be colder going forward, and
we'll be busy with other things over the next couple
of weekends: meeting my new older brother Rob and his
wife Cynthia, and my two new nieces Elisabeth and
Ryan, and her sister Jennifer, Kevin and their
children. They'll get to meet Lara and Andrea
who will both be in town for the weekend of Lara's
birthday. And now, this just in - literally, as
I typed this: our new cousin Brian, current wife
Theresa, and his 26 year old daughter Lorna.
It's been a sad but miraculous month so far.
Oct 4th. We've
had
a delightful visit from one of the couples we stayed
with in Australia, Kerry and Dave. They were
here for two nights, capping off a seven week trip
through N. America. It was their second visit to
our continent. We thoroughly enjoyed their
company. Dave is a former Aussie footballer, and
they fiercely support the Geelong Cats. On the
last night before they left, in true Aussie fashion,
they sat up until 4 a.m. to watch the finals projected
on my living room wall. Geelong won, thank
goodness.
Yesterday Deborah
got a call from Toronto Animal Services. Their
nursery roof caved in, which was strange, on such a
new building. Deborah agreed to bring home
another Mommy cat with three six week old
kittens. They are very cute, and quite diverse:
charcoal black, tan and orange-red. None of them
seem to have a strong feral gene, and the mother is
quite calm in her new surroundings, and relaxed around
us, which is good. We haven't locked her into
the guest room, but she stays in there with her
kittens most of the time anyway.
Sept 30th. It
has been a terrible six weeks. In mid-August, my
sister Heather phoned to say that it was time to go
back west again to see my father before he died.
He had contracted pneumonia, and they had to suspend
his chemo treatment. At his age, after more than
two years of fighting multiple myeloma through two
previous failed attempts at chemotherapy, there wasn't
much hope he'd survive even if he did overcome the
pneumonia. She thought that his death wasn't
imminent, that we might have a few weeks to spend with
him, so we drove, but I was anxious and full of
foreboding, so I drove long and hard. We covered
the whole distance in two days and a couple of final
hours on the third morning. Deborah and I
arrived at his bedside in the Cross Cancer Institute,
but he was very weak and under morphine. He was
too stoned and weak to respond to our presence, but we
believe that he knew we were there and showed some
evidence of that.
Forty minutes after we arrived, the
nurses came to give him a fresh morphine injection, an
increased amount. Less than three hours later he
took his last breath. Exhausted by the drive, I
was stunned at the sudden turn and it took several
days for me to begin to breathe normally.
There
remained a sort of humourless "sad spot" in me, a
depression which lingered for some time.
I spent three more weeks helping
Mom with work that needed to be done at the house, and
sorting through the boxes of sixty years of paper that
he'd hoarded, a job that is far from over and includes
sifting through many boxes of audiotape, videotape and
8 mm films. He'd converted the bulk of them to
dvd at great cost recently, but I can't bring myself
to let the rest go until I'm sure he hasn't missed
any. I did find two trays of slides that he'd
accidentally discarded when he shifted all of his
first fifty years of periodicals collection to storage
in the garage.
Back in Toronto two weeks ago, we began catching up to
our garden.
I set up a fresh bed in the front yard and I'm moving
plants around.
We have a harvest of tomatoes, raspberries, squash and
swiss chard to eat, and
lots of home maintenance chores we'd put off. We
need to make sure the house is dry and secure for
winter. We still haven't sailed our own boat all
season, although we've been out three times on
friends' boats earlier in the summer. We
have friends here from Australia, a couple we stayed
with as couchsurfers last winter. We'll
celebrate Octoberfest at the yacht club tomorrow
evening after we drop them off at the airport for
their flight home. We each have a voting poll to
serve as District Returning Officers on Oct 6th in the
provincial election. My niece Lara is coming
here the last week in October, and her cousin Andrea
will be here as well over that weekend to visit her,
us and the great metropolis; I'm learning to edit
video, we've had Deb's Dad and new lady friend over
for lunch, and we'll get back into bridge, and
possibly a tennis game or two before it gets too cold
to play any longer. We've resumed Spanish
lessons, and our once-a-week darts/games evenings at
the club. The sailboat comes out of the water
for the winter at the end of October.
Until now I've had no desire to update my digital
diary, and I've lost my musical mojo completely since
Dad's death, but I'm trying to get back into the mood:
we've rejoined the jazz choir and have a good
selection of songs that we're working on.
Sept
19th...I think. I expunged this record temporarily
to save Mom precipitous embarrassment in case someone read her
news here first (Peter's caution) and added it back to my diary
more than a year later:
This morning I finally got an email from the
Canadian Adoptees Registry confirming that we have a
match. It's an exciting moment, but we understand that it
may be an emotionally difficult moment for our elder brother
Robert and that it may take some time to gradually get to know
him and our new nieces. We wait
with great anticipation to connect for the first time in sixty
years with an eldest brother that we've never known and didn't
even know existed until exactly a month ago. This stunned
me at least as much as Dad's death, coming as such a complete
surprise. Meeting our brother promises to be a
tremendously emotional event for me and my siblings, one of
wondrous joy in stark relief to our pain over Dad's death and
the disappointment that he kept this secret to the very end.
What a horrible time it was, sixty years ago, when so many young
mothers felt compelled to give up their first child in our
puritanical, coercive, repressive society. A lifetime of
heartache for my mother (and probably for my father, although he
kept such thoughts and feelings tightly to himself) might
finally come to a close as a result of the Open Records
legislation enacted in Ontario in 2009.
Aug 15th. A
decade ago I crewed once a week for three years on a
racing Express 30 called Midnight Express, and I
introduced Mike and Janet Bauer to the skipper, Bill
Wrencliffe. Mike's been crewing for him ever
since, and is now in the process of buying the boat
from him. He invited me along to crew for him on
his first cruise as "the skipper". We
had a fine sail to Lakeshore Yacht Club on Saturday,
about 26 kilometres or 14 nautical miles. 22
boats from our club went there for the weekend, about
80 people, while some of their boats went to our club
for the same social event. We ate and drank too
well.
Aug 7th. The heat and humidity
continues, although not as bad as it was in July, when we
broke a few records. We had an Island Party all day
yesterday, and the four yacht clubs competed for a cup.
Deborah and her partner took first place at the euchre
tournament, earning points for our club. I captained the
darts team, and although my partner and I came second last,
one of my team's pairs came first. There were sailing
races, dinghy races and other competitions. Our club
took the cup for overall points to hang onto for a year.
Deborah
will go to Montreal to visit her Mom and sisters from
tomorrow until Friday, so I'm bach'ing it and should have
lots of time for music and for sailboat and home maintenance
chores. I've joined Rod Smith and Sheila Brand-Bennett
to form a trio doing cocktail sets of songs from the
maritimes, songs from the 20's and 30's from England and N.
America, some comedy songs, some shanties, and some Beatles
tunes. We have keyboard, guitars, ukulele and trumpet
between the three of us, and the three part harmonies are
excellent so we'll do a few a capella songs, some with just
hand percussion. We had one exploratory session,
collecting song ideas, and I'll have a second rehearsal with
Rod tomorrow or Tuesday. Sheila is a former
professional singer and musical theatre actress who now teaches with the
Toronto school board;. She has been our
conductor in the jazz choir since last winter. Our
first project is to perform Birdland on stage at the CNE on
August 30th, This is already booked as a small
ensemble part of the larger jazz choir performance.
Aug
3rd. Over the weekend we
enjoyed having my niece Lara as a house guest. She
arrived July 29th. We ate tomatoes, zuchinni and
raspberries from our garden with Deb's Hainan chicken, and
we toured the neighbourhood, including the yacht club and
lakefront. We visited Rosetta McClain Garden where
we took a series
of
lily photos for my sister Heather, the lily
afficionado. Lara had her first Chinese dim sum
from-the-cart lunch, and we visited Kensington
Market, an iconic Toronto neighbourhood, on a
"Pedestrian Sunday", when they close off the streets. It's
sort of a current version of the Yorkville that existed
when I was a teenager, before Yorkville got yuppiefied and
went boutique and commercial. Enjoy the slideshows:
the lily photos are mine, of course, but the Kensington
Market photos were submitted by many other visitors to the
market.
July
28th. We went to the McMichael Gallery,
where we immersed ourselves in the Group of Seven and Marc-Aurele
Fortin, a Montreal artist who I admire in spite the
miserable circumstances of his later years. Married
at 61 - at that point, I'd have to ask, "Why bother?" -
and later, diabetic and vulnerable. He lost both
legs and then his sight. He endured abuse by a 25
year old agent, aide and power of attorney who burned
thousands of his works for some mysterious reason -
perhaps she thought she'd boost the value of the remaining
collection by making them more rare. Fortunately
many hundreds, at least, remain.
We picked up Rosalinde, an artist couchsurfer
from Victoria who stayed with us for a few days last
month, and took her with us. Apart from that we've
just been playing tennis,
bridge and darts, weeding the garden, and other
random chores that pop up. We're making a little
headway in the basement, eliminating excess cargo.
We spent a whole afternoon at that. We'll have a
garage sale when we have a weekend with nothing else
happening.
July 21st. We have just
returned from a couple of weeks with family in
Alberta. It was a very pleasant trip. Dad was
weak when we arrived but perked up with the help of
radiation, dexamethazone and fresh hemoglobin during our
stay. He is on a new therapy using
thalidomide. It is very expensive, but after some
anxious days while his medical insurance refused to cover
it, we got word that the drug company themselves will
subsidize it 100%. We enjoyed reconnecting with
siblings, nieces and nephews, and uncles.
We all did yardwork, eavestrough and
garage work and some setting up of handrails and other
medical aids for Dad in case he gets weaker as time goes
on, or has weak days. With fragile bones, falling is
a significant danger, so handrails in the washroom and
back stairway are important. It has been a cool and
rainy spring in Alberta.
Here in Ontario, the opposite holds
true. We returned to a heat wave, and temperatures
in the mid-thirties, mid-forties with the humidex.
Today was forecast to hit a high of 38/48. I watered
the garden and spent some time weeding until the heat
drove me back indoors. Our garden has been taken
over by crabgrass. On the other hand, we have
awesome tomatoes, zucchinis and raspberries, swiss chard,
arugula, and the occasional lovely strawberry still
fruiting. There's
nothing better than chilled Romanesque zucchini slices
with ranch dressing on a day like this.
July 2nd. Yesterday we went to a
live performance of Edith
Nesbit's The Railway Children, for our 22nd wedding
anniversary treat. It was a bit tame as theatre,
based on a children's story and filled with Edwardian
language, manners and morals, but we enjoyed the unique
staging which included a vintage steam engine named Vicky
as a bonafide walk-on character. It was staged in a
locomotive round-house, and was quite a spectacle. The audience
sits on both sides of the tracks and the actors deliver
their lines on the train platform, and on special
platforms that wheel in and out along on the tracks, while
the locomotive steams in and out at various points in the
play without interfering with the play itself, so the
whole audience gets to see and hear all the actors
equally. We sat in the third row up from the stage.
Afterward we hiked up to Ontario Place
to enjoy Canada Day
fireworks. They fire them from a barge just
off-shore. I've always joked that I'm so Scottish I
got my father to marry us and picked July 1st for the date
so we'd always have free fireworks.
It was an ordeal getting home,
though. Public transit couldn't handle the
crowds. Streetcars and buses were all late, and
jam-packed with riders. We finally got home by 12:40
a.m. Next year we'll watch the fireworks from
our boat again, or drive down and capture a parking spot
early in the day.
We fussed with our brand new Tohatsu motor on the
sailboat, which purrs like a kitten, but the electric
start button wouldn't work. We finally concluded,
with the help of dock neighbours, that I'd blown a fuse in
the electric start circuit of the motor while trying to
hook it up to our dual battery system aboard the
boat. While at the club, we pull-started the motor
and managed to step the mast and put on our boom and
sail. Soon we'll get out on the water for our first
sail of the season in our own boat.
June
30th. Here is our latest
couchsurfing guest: Rosalinde from Victoria. She's
holding the sign Deb used to find her at the
airport. She's enjoying the ROM, the AGO, and touring
eastern Canada. She leaves tomorrow morning early
for a three day tour of Montreal, Ottawa and Quebec City,
and she'll also make a trip to New York from here.
I've done some landscaping over the past few
days, moving flowering plants, irises, ornamental elephant
grass and sea oats to the front yard from the nursery area
in the back. Later I'll shift the raspberry canes
over to one side to grow more and better tomatoes and
beans in our back kitchen garden. I will build a
special oval bed in the centre of our sunny front lawn for
the peonies, tiger lilies that are taller than I am, plus
some day lilies, some irises
and cana lilies, and tulips around the outside edge.
June
26th. Today is the 60th
Anniversary of our tennis club. We'll have a big
party at the clubhouse. Yesterday we picked up our
new outboard. We'll mount that tomorrow, and get
onto the next task of prepping and stepping the mast,
attaching the boom and raising the sails for the first
time this year. We painted the last bedroom wall
yesterday. Afterward, I mowed the lawns, and came
across a mouse - actually just the front half, a gift from
Jasmine, our outdoor cat. I had to find a place for
it so I could continue mowing. Fortunately, there
was a perfect choice: several years ago Deborah bought a
mouse plant, and labeled it. Something ate the first
two leaves as soon as they emerged, and she covered it
with a downspout cage to try to protect it, but it never
recovered. The cage, and the sign, have been there
ever since...so of course I was able to tell her that I
thought she should check her mouse plant, that something
was finally actually growing there. It was a bit
gruesome, perhaps, but it was worth it.
June 23rd. In
a burst of energy likely inspired by the fact that the big
decorating job is almost over, we began painting the final
bedroom today. The ceiling is done but the walls
will take two coats, so two more days should do it.
There are other projects: flooring, shed-shingling,
plumbing, etc - but nothing so Herculean as repainting the
entire interior. So we might soon get back to
simpler retirement joys: reading my stack of books,
playing music at home, learning Spanish verb conjugations,
and sailing.
I did finally get the outboard back on
the sailboat, but it wouldn't run - no spark. I think I
must have burnt out an electrical component when we were
trying to adjust the idle. We didn't notice that the
impeller had broken and there was no cooling water running
through the motor until it had really overheated. I
finally gave up on this 27 year old motor and ordered a
new 9.8 hp 4-stroke Tohatsu; we're waiting for them to
phone and tell us it has arrived at the dealership.
I can't wait to get the new outboard on and step the mast
- we might be able to join a club cruise over the Canada
Day weekend.
We've been eating a bowl of
strawberries from our garden every evening for a week now,
and serving them as dessert to BBQ dinner guests. We
got a good June crop this year. Some of the plants
are "ever bearing" and should continue to give us fruit
through the summer. I should plant more of
those. Placing actual straw under the "strawberries"
as mulch was successful. It limited the weeds and
helped the soil retain moisture, and the loosely packed
straw allowed airflow, giving the berries a high and dry
place to rest and ripen.
The raspberries will come soon; the
blossoms have already turned into little green berries.
June 18th. I
was planning to finally put my outboard back onto the
sailboat and step the mast today, but Murphy struck: the
bathroom medicine cabinet came off the wall last
night. The anchors had probably weakened when we
removed it for painting. After a late start, we
visited three stores but couldn't find anything we liked
better than the one that fell, which matches our other two
bathroom cupboards, so I rebuilt the specially designed
hinges of this one and remounted it while Deborah took the
door in for a new mirror. That took up most of our
day. We have guests coming for BBQ supper, so I
spent the rest of the afternoon racking ginger wine and
cleaning equipment, and doing gardening chores, including
watering. We've had a warm dry stretch of weather
lasting several days now. On days like this, I yearn
for a more nomadic footloose and fancy-free existence,
devoid of yard work and house maintenance. Life's
too short to live out one's few golden years this
way. Now I know why guys get grumpy in their
declining years.
June 17th. On
Wednesday we had our last choir and big band rehearsals
for the season. The band had a party at Mike Sanderson's
house. He's the guy at the left in the photo on this
web page for Moo'd Swing.
This group has played at Roy Thomson Hall. He plays
guitars and mandolins and such with that group, but he
plays trombone with us. They have nice sound samples on
their website.
Last night our choir performed at the
ETT annual awards dinner at the Liberty
Grand ballroom, down on the CNE grounds. We
drove the Indy 500 track in our Suzuki to get back out of
the grounds on the way home, which is a bit of a fantasy
thrill, quite frankly. The Liberty Grand is a truly
grand, spectacular building dating back to 1926.
We've been invited back to perform on stage at another
event on August 30th during the CNE, so I guess they liked
us.
Our last Spanish lesson for the season
is this evening; and our last two bridge afternoons next
week, although we plan to start going to an evening bridge
drop-in.
April, May and June are always very
busy months. I often feel like I have a full time
job just keeping up with all our yard
work and gardening, home and boat maintenance, taxes,
medical appointments and volunteering commitments, while trying
to squeeze in all the additional things we do just for
fun. We hope the next three months will be a little
more relaxing.
June 13th. After
a busy weekend that included the AMSF AGM Director's
meeting and dinner, having guests in our home for two
nights, our HYC Sailpast Salute to the Commodore followed
by the dinner/dance, and Sunday spent doing party clean-up
and my six hour OD duty, life is returning to
"ordinary". We've spent the day heavily pruning a
couple of trees, one of which blocked sun to our
neighbour's garden and our own, while the other allowed
tempting access to our roof to the local raccoons.
Three raccoons in the tree in our backyard had a loud
session a few nights ago. Toronto is the racoon
capital of the world. We now have a huge pile of
boughs, branches and leaves to cut up and dispose of.
I have Monday night house league tennis
this evening. Through the coming week we have some
final band and choir events of the season, including a
band party and a concert and dinner for the jazz
choir. Between those
events, bridge games and medical appointments, we'll put
the outboard on the boat, and if it runs smoothly, we'll
step the mast; and we'll complete our interior painting
project. Yesterday
Deborah bought a 3/4 size classical guitar, a Beaver
Creek, from a friend. I called it her "six-string
ukulele", but it seems easy to play for her small hands,
and it looks and sounds nice.
I've added five more photos to our tulip
folder, which is more than just tulips now; these ones
aren't tulips, but they're a good show. The
Starburst Clematis, peonies and white irises are dramatic.
For some reason I missed getting a photo of our dark
purple irises, and our Black Locust tree which fills with
blossoms and perfumes the entire neighbourhood for one
week in June every year.
June 9th. I
should have knocked on wood when I wrote that "nothing out
of the ordinary" was happening. Yesterday we had a
heat record for June 8th, and at 7 p.m. a violent wind and
hail storm knocked down huge trees, rooftop business signs
and power lines all over Scarborough, including the mature
maple tree on my neighbour's property right across the
street. Every block on our neighbourhood had limbs
sheared off or entire trees uprooted, snapped off at the
trunks. The clean-up will go on for a while.
The kittens went back for adoption this
morning. Today we await the arrival of two guests
who are billeting here for two nights while attending the
AMSF charity AGM and annual dinner, which we will also
attend. Saturday is Sailpast at HYC, and then things
-hopefully - will get back to "ordinary".
June 7th. I
replaced the impeller on the Honda four stroke motor,
which was an interesting challenge. We haven't had a
chance to run it on the boat yet. But we've spent a
day downtown at the AGO, made progress on painting the
house, had Sol and Marcie over for lunch, took our
neighbours and other friends out for dinner. We've
kept up our Spanish lessons, music, darts, bridge, started
up the tennis house league, kept a series of medical
appointments, and all that stuff. Life continues,
nothing out of the ordinary but nothing wrong with any of
it.
May
22nd. We've had many days
of rain, and not many days of sun. The garden is planted, and we are
painting the house - painfully
slowly - but we haven't sailed our own boat yet because of
motor woes. We sailed with our friend Don Davies
yesterday instead. It was our first incredibly
beautiful, sunny day in almost two weeks. I'll have
to open my own motor and investigate a non-functioning
impeller. I'll watch for any used long
shaft outboards that might come onto the market, and I'll
explore the possibility of converting to an electric motor
on a sailboat of this size, which will probably happen
next November once the boat is out of the water on its
cradle if it happens at all.
May 8th. We've
had two sunny days in a row, and that means back-breaking
work in the garden. (Rainy days mean painting inside
the house.) We have turned the soil, weeded, done
some transplanting, mowed the lawns for the second time
this season, and tomorrow we'll plant low bush beans,
swiss chard, buttercup and butternut squash, zucchini,
basil, leeks, onions, and rocket. We'll plant red
potatoes if we can find the variety we want, and
tomatoes. Deborah has picked up several varieties of
cherry and regular tomatoes, including one heirloom
variety. We've battled the raspberry canes, which
left me bloodied but unbowed. The strawberries have
white blossoms so we'll soon be tasting those, and we have
lungwort, primrose and the tulips. The dandelions
have arrived. Deb attacks them with alacrity every
spring. All the annuals are emerging: the sunburst
clematis, and all the border bushes. The front hedge
is turning green.
We continue our two afternoons per week
of bridge school and club play. Monday evening house
league tennis has begun. Deb is back to her choir
and I'm playing piano in the Montcrest Big Band rhythm
section
. I have to practice my charts through the
week. Wednesday evening is darts night, and we have
begun Friday evening Spanish lessons - and wouldn't you
know it, the instructor assigns homework!
Yes, we're very busy...and we
haven't even begun taking our own boat out on the lake, or
having bbq's at the club. However, we will be
sailing tomorrow: our friend Sean has just bought a new 36
foot Hinterhoeller sailboat and brought it home to
Bluffer's Basin last Friday, and he has asked us to crew
for him as he puts her through her paces and gets used to
the boat.
Between spring cleaning and yard work,
house painting, gardening, taxes and getting the sailboat
ready for the water, April and May are the two busiest
months in the year down here on the suburban Ontario
homestead. June, July, August, September and October
are the months when we just have to maintain what we've
accomplished, and enjoy the fruits of our labours.
May 3rd. Deborah's diary entry:
it was touch and go about getting the boat
ready...down to the wire. Unfortunately we could not wait as
the crane was scheduled. Luckily the 100 km winds that week
happened on Thursday.
If they'd happened on Saturday, we would have had to
re-schedule the crane for another day. Luckily Saturday was a
glorious day!! The only problem was the motor and so we are
sitting at the end of the dock instead of where we usually
stay (motor starts, but stalls..carburetor problems). We need
the tow boat to drag us back to our slip, but it has been too
busy and too rainy so far. For example today I had my
bi-annual mammogram.
BTW, my weeds are doing great!! Yesterday in a fit of
energy and several minutes of dry weather, I pulled weeds from
the "vegetable" garden at the back. I bought some swiss chard
seeds and would like to put them in the garden...if it EVER
stops raining!!
The kittens are so cute (see below). When I go into the room and
talk to them they all come out of the carrier. Actually I am
somewhat surprised that they are not out exploring on their
own...but maybe that is because they were so much younger than
any other litter I got. (Steve
believes it is because the mommy cat is so extremely attentive
that they never seem to have any compulsion to leave their
den)
Painting...ah yes...must get back to that now that boat duties
are mostly taken care of... 3 rooms done...5 to go (counting
the hallway as a room).
Stay dry!!
Steve: I spent all of yesterday
morning at the truck dealership getting a diagnostic
done. My hybrid batteries are still under warranty for
two more years, so I was hoping I'd get new ones, but they
appear to be fine and we just got the computer codes
reset. I probably caused the error code by not shutting
them off when I went away and let the truck sit for two
months, according to the manual.
In the afternoon I picked up
another truckload of firewood from a friend who cut down a big
ash tree. We have painting to continue, and new piano
music to learn for the big band. Deborah made turkey
dinner and her usual enormous pot of turkey soup on
Sunday. Today we returned to the teachers' bridge
club. Lots going on.
April 28th: As of last night, when a
fifth trumpet player returned to the Montcrest big band, I
officially became the piano player instead. The weather
has been frightful - 100 km winds overnight, and many days of
rain and gray skies. We got the boat ready for launch,
now only two days away, during a couple of weather-windows;
but not the motor, yet. It'll be a weekend of work and
partying at the yacht club, and house league tennis begins
this Monday evening. The kittens have finally started
emerging from the cat carrier on their own, invariably in
search of their mother, who almost never leaves them alone,
but if she does, they'll pursue. This morning she was
visiting us as we awoke, and I heard a tiny thump from the
guest room as one of them fell an inch from the lip of the cat
carrier to the rug below. The mother raced out of the
room like a shot to get the little miscreant back into its
den.
April 24th: This morning the mommy
cat made her big move; but the gray kitten gave her
away. We heard a single kitten crying, and went to look
to see why, but the kittens had all vanished from the guest
room. There was, however, a lump under the red feather
half-duvet covering the bottom half of our bed. The lump
moved. Deborah spoke to the lump, and the mommy cat's two
enormous eyes appeared just under the edge of the duvet.
Deborah turned the duvet back, and found all four kittens
there with her. The gray one had moved a few inches away
from her, perhaps disoriented by its new surroundings, and had
begun to mew - "ratting her out", so to speak.
It's been a sunny day. I've mowed
both lawns for the first time, moved some tulips from the
spots in the lawn where the squirrels had decided they ought
to grow, and painted the other half of the sailboat
cradle. It has been two-tone (half-painted) for a few
years. Once it gets stacked, a week from now, it'll be
out of reach for the rest of the year, except for a week at
the end of October. My crew job during launch is to
stacking all the cradles. We're going to have moose
steak for supper, courtesy of our newfie neighbour
Brent.
April 23rd: the weather has been gray, wet and miserable all
week, making it hard to think about sailing, gardening or
other summer pursuits. This afternoon it is supposed to
warm up and the sun will shine a bit, so we'll go down to the
boat and begin prepping it for Launch Day, which is racing
toward us, scheduled for April 30th.
We've completed painting the walls in the
living room a very bright white with the tiniest bit of
silvery-gray in it, which gives us vibrant colours when we use
our projector on the wall in the evenings; but the projected
whites are almost too brilliant. A different gray with
more charcoal in it would have improved the contrast, but
we're supposing that in a little time, soot from the fireplace
will create that adjustment naturally. That's two rooms
painted. Six to go.
The current cat mommy is very friendly, but
Deborah has created a monster. The cat has been polite,
only visiting us in our room before we sleep or when we wake
up, but she was in our room this morning, exploring, and
Deborah invited her under the covers between us. When I
got up I saw the four kittens in their bed in the spare room,
but seconds later Deborah swung her legs out of bed and almost
stepped on the gray one - whose eyes have just opened
overnight - mewing loudly where it had been dropped on the mat
beside our bed. The mommy cat had decided that she
really liked the dark, warm comfort of the space between us
under the covers, and was trying to move her kittens
there. We closed the bedroom door on her to prevent it,
but two hours later she was at the closed door once again,
standing up and trying to push it open, caterwauling with the
gray kitten at her feet.
April 18th. After a couple of weeks
with us, our young Tibetan/Canadian family was able to find
their own apartment, so we filled up the truck and helped them
move in. They left us with freshly washed walls, so now
we're painting. We can't put it off any longer.
Deborah brought home a fresh litter of four kittens with their
mother cat from the Toronto Humane Society. They'll be
with us for the next seven weeks.
April 10th. We've
had house guests for a week. Carrie is the niece of a
friend. She went to Dharamsala to study Tibetan
translation, and came back two years later with a Tibetan
husband, Tenzin. They have an eight month old baby girl,
Dawa. They're trying to get established in
Toronto. We've freed up the second bedroom in our little
cottage, which we were using as an office and walk-in closet,
for them to stay in while they look for an apartment.
Tenzin is working long days, putting in a four hour round trip
commute to Mississauga to unload and sort ongoing cargo from
planes, and Carrie is looking for a position. She was a
recreational administrator for the YMCA prior to her
Dharamsala adventure, so she should find something soon.
I've had a dental implant drilled and
pegged in my jawbone. Tenzin and I have cut firewood and
done the spring cleaning in our yard. There's no snow
left. The grass is greening and the trees are
budding. The temperature is 22 degrees today, with a
howling wind. Deborah and I have been to bridge
together. Deb has been back to choir, and I've found a
new jazz/swing band to play with - not too big, about
seventeen players, mostly saxes, trombones and trumpets, plus
a drummer and a bass player. They're short a piano
player, so I'll cover that as well as one of the four trumpet
spots.
Deborah will be away all this week visiting
her Mom and sisters in Montreal, and I'll wash walls, work in
the garden and maybe get some painting done while she's gone.
We
are settling back into our Toronto life.
April
1st. We are just back from two months in Australia,
escaping the ice and snow in Toronto. We went from the
aforementioned minus 18 to plus 42 in Sydney, a 60 degree
temperature change. The week we arrived was the hottest
they'd had in 140 years. The details and photos are in a
travel blog kept on blogspot.com - here is the link: Australia
2011.
Jan 22nd...Deborah's birthday!
It is minus 18 outside, just like an Alberta winter. We
went out for an early Chinese buffet dinner and then dropped in
"unannounced" on Greg, Christine and Liam. We managed to
surprise Deborah completely. We toasted her with bubbly
and this cute birthday cake made by another friend, Alison
Dowling:
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(Alison is from Queensland, so all the proceeds of her
cake business are currently going to Australian flood
relief) |
Jan 20th. We arrived home from our
second two-week stay in Varadero
yesterday. We came in on the red-eye, got to bed by 5:30
and slept until noon. Today we're feeling normal
again. We stayed at the "Sunbeach"
resort. Be careful how you say that name. Don't
pronounce it like the guide did on the bus from the
airport. It is really 2 1/2 stars, not 3 (don't trust the
TripAdvisor star reporting), and we actually preferred the 2
star Mar
del
Sur resort we stayed at in November, for several
reasons. We were not thrilled with the front desk
management of this hotel, who we witnessed being dishonest, rude
and unprofessional in the extreme to some guests with a very
legitimate complaint about their bill. It looked like the
staff had no customer service training to prepare them for their
role, and no policy to fall back on when things didn't add up or
they'd made a serious mistake and inconvenienced a
customer. A few of the other staff were also pretty
grumpy, but the hotel tends to cater to a young and rowdy
clientele, kind of like a permanent Spring Break crowd. I
can see why they get grumpy but at the same time it serves them
right. The food was somewhat better than Mar del Sur,
at least.